A nine-year-old boy saved his family from the fire, but his mother died. Seven great feats of little heroes How to help fire victims

Good evening everyone. I decided to pony a bit, at the same time and ask. The topic is mother-in-law. I, probably, for the first time in all family life I will complain about it, although I always considered it and now I consider it golden, but with one big but! I understand that this is probably my cockroaches and hormones that have not subsided yet, but please advise how to calmly respond to the words of the mother-in-law. Background: I'm not exactly a TV fan, but it often works for me, usually even in the background, i.e. turned it on and special attention I don’t pay attention, I rather listen to it than watch it. Today, my mother-in-law once again came to us for tea and saw that my TV was on, and the small one was sitting in a deck chair, which stands under the TV (the TV is hanging on the wall). And she began to reprimand me that it’s impossible for the child to be under the TV, that supposedly waves come from him, that the constant sound has a bad effect on the nervous system, that Olya (middle daughter-in-law) and her other friends who have children , the TV never works in the presence of a child. In fairness, it must be said that the mother-in-law "knows how" to come at the right time, i.e. when I just turned on the TV in the kitchen and started cooking something. Apparently, that's why she gets the impression that we have this all day, although this is far from the case. Or she also likes to compare me in terms of raising children with the same average daughter-in-law, who had children earlier than ours in such a way that: here Olya did this and that, her children didn’t behave like that etc. in that vein. It just infuriates ... As if Olya is such an ideal, and I am a grief-mother. I myself at such moments listen to her in silence, i.e. I don’t snap, from the category of “the dog barks, but the caravan moves on.” But in my heart everything boils with anger. Here's how to learn to calmly relate to such words of hers and instructive tone (although maybe she doesn’t put teaching into them, but I perceive it that way)?
And the second question about the TV. I kind of understand that yes, it can affect nervous system baby, but this is if the whole day, and to the fullest. And I get 40 minutes for the whole day, and it’s so quiet that when the electric kettle is working, it’s almost inaudible. Is it really that everyone just refuses the TV set (I emphasize - in the background, and not staring at the screen) with the advent of the baby?
And as usual, thank you in advance! I will answer as soon as possible, I apologize if not everyone.

evil aunt

Hello everyone. My daughter is 10 in August, but I just can’t instill a love of reading.
But on the other hand, we love it when mom reads to her before going to bed))) And for the summer they gave out a long list for extracurricular reading- now the question arose who will read mom or daughter ((

Bellefleur-Chinese

Where is Marina Luneva? Our daughters are the same age, 12 years old.
Let's get ready too.

Daughter in the country.
The grandmother asked to do something, the daughter willingly helps and they are not bored there, but on the contrary they are friends and they have fun, and there is not even a TV
She turned away and went where she was sent, saying the word B, don't think it's a damn thing)
In the neighboring area, an 8-year-old girl, a good family, also swears, she was flogged - her mother told her

We do not see the tragedy, the grandmother pretended not to hear - she really is deaf - we will educate.
The eldest son did not swear, he was not interested.
Husband said let it be. Until you stop, maybe he’ll talk a little on the sly and get bored over the summer.
At home, no one ever swears. I wrote to the school group, the mothers said - they too, they had already noticed before)

The topic is to talk. You can write what words to educate, although I would also write them in someone else's topic.
What will we do?

Justification)
I'm at home, I'm bored, everything is done.

Gourmand

Good afternoon! The other day we get the keys to the apartment. Repairs are coming, the apartment is rented completely bare, there will not even be interior partitions. There is no opportunity to hire a designer. I want to try my hand at designing an apartment. The color solution in general, that is, we will select the colors, but the problem is with the arrangement of furniture and accessories, drawing up a plan for which outlet, lamp, etc. Maybe someone did the project itself? Suggest a program for a beginner. Can you recommend some literature to make it clearer?
And then porridge in the head. How do I fix the...

Milaniya85

Hello! We plan to have a second child when the first one is 7 years old and goes to school. There is no way to give birth earlier. The husband works late, the grandmothers live very far away. In fact, there is no help from relatives. There is an idea to hire a nanny for three hours a day: 2 hours with the youngest while I cook or clean (including the opportunity to be alone for a while), and the third hour is spent approximately for the nanny to pick up the child from school and bring him home . A total of 15 hours a week (Moscow region, approximately 300 rubles per hour). We don't have money for a full day. Share your experience, how comfortable will it be? Is three hours enough? How to solve the problem with senior lessons? I really lacked help with the first one, he was very active for the first 2 years and constantly demanded attention until he went to the garden. I didn’t even have the opportunity to cook food, clean the apartment or take a shower. Experienced mothers, please advise how best to organize third-party assistance with such a difference between children?

AT last days we write a lot about what was not done and who made the criminal mistakes that led to the tragedy in Kemerovo. But there were those who, through their actions, helped save others. Alexander Kalachev, Dmitry Polukhin, photographer Evgeny, deceased teacher Tatyana Darsalia and others - they helped save dozens of human lives.

Not all the stories about courage in the fire in the Kemerovo "Winter Cherry" have been told yet, but we have collected six that are already known today. These heroes are a variety of ordinary residents of Kemerovo, not rescuers, not policemen and not security guards. They helped strangers, saved children when they themselves were in danger.

Tatyana Darsalia

A teacher from gymnasium No. 17 in Kemerovo came to the shopping center with her daughter on her day off. Convinced that her daughter was safe, she returned for other people's children and died trying to save them.

Tatyana Viktorovna was 37 years old. She came to the center to rest together with her 14-year-old daughter Elya. Komsomolskaya Pravda spoke with her student named Polina.

Tatyana Viktorovna was my teacher and head teacher of our school. She was not only a knowledgeable teacher, but also a kind person. When I saw that one of the guys Bad mood came up and asked what happened. Helped to overcome difficulties.

According to eyewitnesses, the woman took her daughter outside. Hearing that there were still many children left inside, she rushed back, directed several children to the stairs and to the exit, but she herself did not go outside. On March 26, her name appeared in the lists of the dead.

Alexander Kalachev

An employee of the cafe in the "Winter Cherry" led and pulled the children on himself from the third floor until he inhaled smoke and got burned.

twenty one year old the guy who got into the news footage when Vladimir Putin visited the regional hospital where he was lying, became the hero of numerous fakes. Bloggers wrote that filming in the ward was a production, and Alexander himself was an employee of the National Guard. We quickly found out that this was not the case, and which he later confirmed on Instagram.

Alexander is not very willing to talk about how he saved people lost on the third floor.

Evacuated people from the third floor. So how did you evacuate? Just escorted to a place where you can quickly leave the premises.

Alexander was poisoned by carbon monoxide, received a slight burn of the throat. On March 27, he was already discharged from the hospital. And here is the same meeting with Putin.

Dmitry Polukhin

A seventeen-year-old cadet of the Ministry of Emergency Situations cadet corps returned into the smoke after hearing from a woman that she had lost her children, and pulled three children out of a smoky boutique.

When it all happened, I was in the cinema hall, watching a movie. There was no siren, nothing. I didn't hear any explosions either. Just an employee of the cinema ran into the hall and told everyone to leave, because there was a fire. We all exited through the fire exit. My session was in the third hall, but when we walked along the fire passage past the door leading to the second hall, I also noticed that for some reason no one was coming out. Whether there were people at the door or not, I did not have time to understand.

When everyone began to descend, Dmitry ran into a woman who was crying and saying that she had children left upstairs. The woman could not really explain where they were, so the young man began to go into all the shops in a row.

And then I heard children's cries. I went to the voice and saw that in one of the stores - or what it was, I couldn’t see in the smoke - three kids huddled in a corner and were crying. In the darkness, I fumbled with my hand and came across a hand. It was a boy of about 11, as I later saw. He also grabbed two girls by the collar and dragged them to the exit.

When asked if the knowledge gained at the Academy of the Ministry of Emergency Situations helped him, Dmitry replied that he did not know - he just heard a cry for help and went.

By the way, if you are interested in asking Dima something, he has an account on Ask.fm.

Konstantin Kolabukhov

A resident of Kemerovo, together with an unknown female cashier, pulled a three-year-old boy out of a burning game room.

Those who died in the fire at the Winter Cherry in Kemerovo. Tens of thousands of people came to them. Caring citizens carried flowers, toys, laid out words from candles and spoke words of support to each other, but Moscow was not without scandals. We talked about why the protests were held in the capital on both Manezhnaya and Pushkinskaya squares and what claims were raised against the slogans that were sounded.

Heroes live among us. Young heroes. Their courage would be the envy of every adult. Life had time to test them for strength, and they courageously passed this test. We have selected for you stories about children who, risking themselves, saved other people's lives.

Nikita Antonov from Primorye only 10 years old. In December of this year, risking his life, he saved a girl who had fallen through the ice. On the Astrakhanka river, Nikita went skating with a friend and two girlfriends. When the children returned home, the thin ice cracked, and the girls ended up in icy water. The young hero pulled out one and then jumped into the water after another. Unfortunately, Nikita could not save the second girl. The boy himself barely got out of the ice captivity.

As Nikita admits, at that moment he did not hesitate and certainly was not afraid for his life.

The hero gave free rein to his feelings only when it was all over: having reached the shore, the boy began to cry...

Alexandra Ershova from Tver I was in the second grade when I made a real feat. In 2004, during a terrible disaster in the Transvaal water park in Moscow, Sasha saved a three-year-old girl completely unfamiliar to her from death. When the vaults of the water park collapsed, the children were trapped between concrete slabs.

Being neck-deep in water, Sasha held the child in her arms until rescuers arrived.

For about an hour and a half, the schoolgirl consoled the girl, not noticing that her arm was broken.

In 2013 Vladislav Filippov from Krymsk rescued his grandmother from a flooded house. During the night, the boy woke up because water was dripping on his face. I had to get out of the house. Vladik woke up his grandmother, Lyubov Shershneva, and together with her tried to open the door. Due to the strong water pressure, this was not possible.

Then a 9-year-old boy broke a window with his bare hands, and so that his grandmother could get out of the trap, he broke
frame.

On the stairs, Lyubov Shershneva and her grandson climbed onto the roof and waited for help until morning. In the morning, a neighbor helped Vladik and his grandmother to move to a safe place, from where the hero was taken to the hospital with cut and bleeding wounds.

Summer 2012 Ksenia Perfilieva from the Kostroma region saved the life of a drowning boy. Two six-year-old neighbor boys were splashing in the river, when suddenly one of them began to drown. There was no one to call for help - there were no adults nearby.

The sixth-grader Ksyusha rushed into the water, in a matter of seconds she swam to the floundering boy and pulled him ashore in her arms.

The child was not breathing, and Ksyusha, remembering the lessons of life safety, began to give him artificial respiration. The boy came to his senses, and an hour later he was taken to the hospital. Ksyusha says that everyone in her place would do the same, and if a similar situation happens again, she will rush to help without hesitation.

Anton Chusov from Gus-Khrustalny was 11 years old when in the summer of 2011 he saved two drowning girls. The boy had just learned to swim, and under the supervision of his grandmother, he swam in the river. Girls were swimming next to him on a car tire. One of them slipped and began to sink. Grandmother on the shore began to call for help, and Anton rushed to save the drowning woman. The hero, diving, pushed her to the shore and handed her over to her grandmother. At this time, out of fear, the second girl slipped into the water and began to drown. And Anton again came to the rescue. This time he helped the drowning woman to climb onto car tire and swim to shore.

Anton does not consider that he has accomplished a feat: “I am not a hero, I am not even the best swimmer in the class.”

First grader Ekaterina Michurova in the winter of 2013, she saved a classmate who fell through the ice. Children skated on the ice channels near the house. Suddenly, the boy fell through the ice. Katya, without hesitation, came to the rescue. Several times the girl tried to pull her classmate by the sleeve, but the boy again slipped into the icy water. The ice cracked, it was very dangerous to be near. Katya grabbed the boy by the hand and pulled him out of the water.

When asked if it was scary, the heroine replied: “Yes. I just thought - if Amir drowned, then his mother would cry very much, and I would lose a friend.

Seven-year-old Vlad Morozov from the city of Navashino in the summer of 2011, he brought his grandmother, Lydia Ivanovna, out of the burning hut. A schoolboy came to visit her for the summer. At night, during a thunderstorm, ball lightning flew into the village hut. A fire started, and the blind grandmother could not get out of the house. At that moment, Vladik ran up to her and said: "Bab, give me your hand, I'll take you out."

While the grandson and grandmother were getting out of the burning hut, molten plastic was dripping onto his back, but the boy did not cry.

Immediately after Lidia Ivanovna and Vladik left the house, there was an explosion - it was a gas cylinder that exploded. Fortunately, the grandmother and grandson were at a safe distance by then.

The young hero carried sisters and brothers out of the fire

Showed not childish courage at all little resident city ​​of Vyazma, Smolensk region. On December 7 at 10 am, a terrible fire broke out in the private house where he lived. Huge flames instantly engulfed the entire structure. A 30-year-old woman with four children was captured by the fire - the family had not yet had time to wake up. The first to come to his senses was 9-year-old Nikita. At first the boy rushed to the front door, but then he remembered his younger brothers and sisters. The young hero managed to literally carry all the children out of the fire in his arms, but the mother of the kids died in the fire.

When the children stood on the porch of the burning house and huddled together from the cold, an investigator from the Interdistrict Investigation Department of the Regional Investigation Department of the ICR drove by. He noticed them, stopped, immediately put them into the car and provided first aid.

“The children were in T-shirts with short sleeves, tights and pants without socks,” said a local resident who happened to be nearby, an eyewitness to the incident.

The investigator wrapped the smallest ones in a blanket: a 9-month-old girl and a 2.5-year-old boy; the rest were sitting in the car with the stove turned on at full power. They did not have time to take anything from the burning dwelling.

The boy said that his mother remained in the house. Then the investigator local resident they rushed to help the woman, but they failed to save her: the house was already completely engulfed in flames and smoke. The investigator called the fire brigade and ambulance The paramedics arrived and took the children to the hospital.

Later it turned out that the children's sister Victoria, who is 11 years old, by a lucky chance spent the night with her great-grandmother. Therefore, the little 9-year-old hero took the blow of fate upon himself - after all, he turned out to be the eldest of the children in the house.

- As a result of the fire, a 9-month-old girl was injured, who is currently being treated at the Children's Burn Center in Moscow. The child's condition is assessed by doctors as moderate. Investigators are considering several causes of the fire, including a malfunction of the stove heating,” said Natalya Zueva, senior assistant to the head of the Investigative Committee of the RF Investigative Committee for the Smolensk Region.

According to the guardianship authorities, the paternal grandmother of the three younger children volunteered to raise the children. Also found aunts of babies living in Vyazma and St. Petersburg. The relatives said: “We will take all the children. We will not send them to an orphanage.”

Nadezhda Kustareva, head of the department of guardianship and guardianship of the district administration, noted that the family was not registered with the guardianship authorities, the older children attend school, the younger ones kindergarten. On that ill-fated day, the schoolchildren stayed at home, as they were sick.

“No one has yet questioned Nikita, as far as I know,” says Valentina, a neighbor. The boy is already under stress. He has not yet been told that his mother is no more. Poor children, so sorry for them! We hope to help good people. In our city, they are already collecting help for victims of the fire - so much is needed: clothes, and all sorts of notebooks for the school, you see, the house burned to the ground, nothing was left. Children almost naked ran out to escape the fire. And now you yourself know how expensive everything is ...

The news about the fire did not leave indifferent both classmates and teachers of the school where Nikita studies.

- Nikita is a very responsive boy, - says classroom teacher 3rd grade Svetlana Ivanova. - Always ready to help when you ask. We recently had a renovation in the library - he helped transfer books. It is evident that the guy is accustomed to order. This is indeed the large family, and Nikita could often be seen with a stroller, or he walked with his younger brothers. They have a garden - the boy also helped dig the beds, plant everything ...

17-year-old Sergei Ganzha does not consider himself a hero - although he himself could well die, looking for the body of a five-year-old child in ice water, at a depth of six meters. He not only pulled a five-year-old girl out of the water, but he himself, remembering the lessons of life safety, gave her artificial respiration before the doctors arrived. And - pumped out.

Sergei Ganzha near the place where he saved Natasha Utkina. Photo: Newspaper "Stepnaya Nov"

August, 26th this year for Sergei, who lives in the Altai regional center of Shipunovo, it began as ordinary. On that hot, stuffy day, it was necessary to prepare a car of firewood and take it to one of the villages. Sergey, having finished nine classes in high school, works for individual entrepreneur Andrey Ignatov - sawing wood, chopping firewood. Having finished swinging the ax, the young man went to the Klepechikha River to look for the sons of Ignatov, who had gone fishing. The guys were supposed to help with loading.

I walked along the dam. On the way I saw small children spinning near the shore - a boy with a girl. Rybakov didn’t find him around the corner, turned back and heard the boy’s cry, ”recalls Sergey.

He ran and saw that the girl was helplessly floundering in the water. Five-year-old Natasha Utkina accidentally fell into the river, coming too close to a slippery steep bank lined with concrete slabs. In this place, Klepechikha is deep, up to six meters in the full-flowing period. Yes, and the current in that place is not weak.

It was impossible to delay. While Sergey was tearing off his jacket and sneakers on the go, the girl disappeared under water. Ran, swam, dived. The water turned out to be very cold and cloudy, nothing was visible at arm's length. Ganzha emerged to take in fresh air into his lungs, and again went into the depths, frantically rummaged along the muddy bottom. Finally, on the fourth attempt, I stumbled upon the girl's body. He grabbed her by the leg and pulled her to the shore with all his might.

It was the energetic, decisive actions of Sergei Ganzha that saved Natasha's life.

The girl was no longer breathing, her pulse was not felt. A four-year-old boy who raised a cry could not help in any way. There were no adults around. You could only count on yourself. Sergei remembered what he had seen on TV and heard in the lessons of life safety, began to do artificial respiration "mouth to mouth" and chest compressions. Clicked on chest with such desperation that the girl then got a bruise. When the child began to breathe, he called the district hospital.

Five-year-old Natasha Utkina was still unconscious when the ambulance arrived. The teenager, along with the doctors, got into the car and drove to the hospital. According to the doctors, it was the energetic, decisive actions of Sergei Ganzha that saved Natasha's life.

“At the meeting, we asked Sergey: was he scared at that moment? He said that, of course, he was. He was afraid that he might not pull the girl out, and he himself could drown, because the water at that time was already very cold. he doesn’t consider it heroic, he says that everyone would have acted in his place. But one can argue with this. Not everyone will find the courage to dive into the icy water, saving the child. We need strength of mind and the ability to sacrifice, "wrote in the regional newspaper "Stepnaya Nov" journalist Alexander Osipov.

At the beginning of next summer, Sergei will turn 18, and there is an army from which the young hero not only does not think to "mow down", on the contrary, he is eager to go there. The young man dreams of getting into the elite, according to him, units - the Airborne Forces or the army special forces, and then remaining to serve under the contract. Sergei proudly admits that the draft military medical commission had no complaints about his health. True, the doctors, probably due to the low growth of the boy, have so far been identified in the Navy. Maybe it's right - he's definitely not afraid of water.

In the Shipunovsky district, after this story, the young man began to enjoy great respect.

When we bring coal or firewood to someone, the villagers often ask if I am the same rescuer. They say: "Well done, there are few of them now. Others would shoot a girl drowning on the phone, and then they would put it on the Internet - to collect likes."

Now the regional Ministry of Emergency Situations is preparing documents for awarding the brave young man with a departmental distinction.

If I need to save someone again, I will do it without hesitation. It doesn't matter - a fire will happen or someone will start to drown again, - Sergey promised.