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I am often asked why I chose such a name for my son, did not call him, for example, Fedor or Mikhail. I just really wanted to have something heroic in the name, so that the son would become strong and courageous, could fight for the family and protect us. I have always sought protection from men. I never saw support from my dad - he and my mom divorced when I was little. My relationship with my husband has not always been perfect. So I decided that all hope for my son. And he will protect me, and older sisters - Alina and Monica.
- How did the girls react to the appearance of another child in the family?
Very well. The word "jealousy" is not familiar to us. It does not exist between sisters, and it does not exist in relation to a brother. Although the girls do not have the best age difference: Alina is 12 years old, Monika is 6. When Monika appeared, Alina was not so old as to babysit her for her own pleasure, and not so small as to play common games on equal terms. And Monica, as soon as she began to move independently, was imposed on her sister every second. And now it continues to do so. Not a morning goes by that Monika doesn't put on Alina's favorite T-shirt or her shorts. I ask: "Whose shorts are these?" "Mine," he says proudly. And poor Alina watches how her things are appropriated.
And Monica can be understood - in this way she wants to become closer to her sister, and Alina. When I have an older guest, I literally have to drag the younger one out of her room by force so as not to interfere with communication. Alina is a teenager, she desperately needs her own space now, her mink, into which no one would meddle.
Ali, in fact, has no one but me. Her father, football player Valentin Belkevich, died three years ago. Although the girl grew up without him, she, of course, experienced this loss. And Monica, on the contrary, has a cycle of love and happiness. Dad, who adores her, grandmother, who idolizes and pampers her. It's hard for Alya to look at this, she is still too small to be so wise. Although he tries.
Alya takes care of Monica, they go for a walk to the playground together, although, probably, this is not the most fun thing for a teenager to walk with her younger sister. And recently I saw how Alina made an invitation to Monica's birthday to all her friends: she cut out six postcards, decorated them, and inscribed them by hand. This is a real sisterly feat, I think so. But in relation to Huck, both have no jealousy or envy at all, only sheer great love. They swaddle him, dress him up, carry him in their arms.
- Men do not notice your extra pounds, they notice self-doubt. Photo: Damira Zhukenova
What is it like to be the mother of a boy?
Huge happiness. But at the same time, even at this early stage, I already feel the difference in the upbringing of boys and girls. I feel like a mother of a strong animal. Still small, but very serious, thoughtful. Well, the main thing, of course, is the difference: do you understand how boys differ from girls? So, when he described me for the first time - in the way that only boys can - I, a mother who had raised two girls before, was completely unprepared for this attraction. (Laughs.)
- Anna, reveal the secret of how a mother of three children can look so gorgeous?
Thanks for the compliment! I must say that the mother of three children has recovered quite a lot - I now weigh ten kilograms more than before the birth of Huck. But I still get compliments every day. What does this say? That we are all completely different. And we are beautiful in our own way. I admire skinny girls who easily fit into high-waisted leather pants, but I understand that I have my pluses - a beautiful butt, big breasts.
This realization did not come immediately, but as soon as it came and I accepted myself for who I am, a miracle happened: my cellulite disappeared. No, maybe he remained on the body, but disappeared from my head. Do you understand what I mean? Cellulite is no longer a problem, an obstacle. It has become irrelevant to me. I love myself and accept who I am. What else does?
- I don’t have a person at my side who magically solves everything. I do everything myself! Photo: Damira Zhukenova
Of course, I also have secrets. You have to keep yourself in good shape. Not so much bodily as spiritual: do not allow yourself to be sad, do not feel sorry for yourself. When I was on last month pregnancy, filmed a documentary, worked on a new reality show (I can’t talk about it yet, you’ll know everything soon), and did a photo shoot two days before Huck’s birth. In addition, I also have my own business, the production of clothes, and this is an office, employees, and clients. Well, when is it sad? It happens, of course, sometimes it rolls, we are all people, we all have our weaknesses. Then I allow myself to cry for half an hour, locking myself in the bedroom, then I get up and move on.
Well, no one canceled training. The body must also be kept in good shape. I go to gym I swim, I run. But I'm not doing this for the sake of reducing or increasing volumes. And especially not in order to please someone. This is important to me for myself. And men ... You know, I realized a long time ago: men do not notice your extra pounds, they notice self-doubt. That's what you have to fight with.
About sexuality
The other day I posted on the Internet my new video called "Passion". This is an important job for me. Having conceived it, I said to myself: “Go and show by your own example that the birth of a child does not automatically mean turning a woman into a chicken. And that she can remain sexy and desirable with any number of children.
- At the same time, many believe that, having given birth to a child, a woman should sit at home, put on a long skirt and be only a mother.
Does she stop being a woman? Ah, I apologize in advance for the question, where will she get new children if she forgets that she is a woman? For example, I want more children, they are wonderful for me. But if I turn into an uninteresting, dull monster, where will they come from?
Anna Sedokova. Photo: Damira Zhukenova
I'll tell you one story. Having married for the first time, I gave birth to Alina and decided that now, as a husband's wife, I would stay at home. On maternity leave, I then left the group " VIA Gra”, being one of the most desirable women in the country. And now, having abandoned my career, myself, and life, I lock myself within four walls, cook three-course dinners, scrub the floors and try to be an exemplary wife and mother. Do you know what came of it? I will never forget the moment when I am rocking my daughter in my arms, and my husband is sitting next to me and watching TV, which shows a group, let's call it “Singing Underpants”. And my husband, without taking his eyes off the screen, moves his chair closer to get a better look at the young half-naked beauties. And the next day I was told that they had seen him in a restaurant with these very "underpants".
It really hurt me then. And I decided not to give up on myself anymore, even for the most beautiful person on earth.
So many times I've been buried as a woman! They said that I was not the same and I could not see success. That I am a useless old aunt with three children, fat, overgrown with cellulite and so on. And under each such article there are hundreds of comments from embittered women, assenting: “Yes, Sedokova is not right.”
To follow the lead of such an audience is also not an option. For ten years, these commentators have been shouting from behind every corner: “How much can you show a decollete ?! Close your chest! What kind of mother are you, you have children, they can see!” Okay, I told myself. And the whole last year was the way these haters wanted me to be. Not for them, of course, for myself. I made a really serious project - I filmed a cycle documentaries“The Universe Is Us”, in which she showed how women achieve their goal, go through all the difficulties prepared for them by fate, to victory.
I also shot the video “First Love” - sincere, honest, deep. There was not even a hint of cleavage. I hoped that people would see me from the other side, understand that I can talk about serious topics. And what do you think? The whole show business pretends that I don't exist. I am considered a downed pilot. This year, for the first time in 15 years, I was not nominated for any award.
- A woman can remain sexy and desirable with any number of children. Photo: Damira Zhukenova
But as soon as I put it on the “Passion” network, where I again appeared before the audience as sexy and feminine, again I was that Anna Sedokova that people are used to, in the first two days the clip received three million views.
About money and responsibility
In addition to music, I have another important occupation in life: I am a businesswoman. I have my own clothing line and a huge responsibility. On the 1st and 15th of each month, like any manager, I have a pay day. And these days, ten of my employees, regardless of whether I am sick, gave birth to a child, broke up with a boyfriend, receive their money. Every morning I wake up and, instead of playing with my children, chatting with them, pampering them, I go to work. I'm going to make my business profitable. And I don’t have a person at my side who magically solves everything. I do everything myself.
- And at the same time, you probably often hear: “You are a mother, why did you leave your children and work all the time?”
It is precisely because I am a mother that I have to work all the time. Children need to eat, drink, study, live somewhere every day. And all this costs money. I never for a moment forget that I myself rose from the bottom. I'm from a very poor family, my dad and mom divorced with a terrible scandal. My father practically did not help us, and my mother, a teacher, worked 24 hours a day to somehow feed my brother and me.
I will never forget the humiliation associated with the lack of money. Complete. Total. Once, with the ensemble in which I was then engaged, we went on tour to Germany, and kind locals gave us, poor Soviet children, a bag of shabby soft toys. I still remember the purple dragon that I got: it was dirty, covered in some kind of jam. But I was happy because I had my personal soft toy.
Anna Sedokova. Photo: Damira Zhukenova
Mom couldn't afford to buy me a doll. Even in my worst nightmare, I don't want to see my children play with someone else's dirty dragon. Therefore, I will do my best to prevent this from happening. I also want to protect those girls who are still in need. Because an uncle can come up to such a girl and say: “Girl, come with me. I know your mother is starving, but I can give you and your mother food." And the girl will follow this uncle - and where should she go, she wants to save her mother from starvation ... Now I am working to establish a fund to help girls from poor families, I will help them find honest work, get an education.
About life and spiteful critics
Yes, I have an unusual fate. And I was explained a million times that it is wrong to live the way I live. I agree, there are moments that surprise even me myself. Recently in Turkey, at a concert, I announced: "And now my children will take the stage - Alina Belkevich and Monika Chernyavskaya." And she thought to herself: “At the same time, you are Anna Sedokova, and Hector has another surname, already the fourth in your family.” But then she said to herself: what the hell?! I give birth to the fourth, with a different surname - this is my life, and I decide how to live it.
I'm not the perfect mom, I'm not the perfect wife, I'm not the perfect boss. And maybe I'm not the perfect singer. But I don't pretend to be someone I'm not. All my life I've been trying to say: “Even if you guys feel bad now, it will be better. You can do it. I can handle it!”
Now such a strange time has come: everyone can tell you on the Internet what he thinks of you. Someone "thank you" says, and someone is rude tirelessly. I noticed that earlier the main wave of the most evil, monosyllabic comments like “fool”, “ugly” came from the accounts of young children. Unhappy, lonely, abandoned by their parents on Instagram and left unattended there.
- I chose my own path, and I like it. I will never give up and I will not let myself be destroyed. Photo: Damira Zhukenova
But these kids can somehow feel sorry. Now the same words are written by grown men. And when I ask myself: "Why do they need this?" - I understand: they cannot admit the thought that a woman can have her own office, business, name, status. These men perceive my success as their own failure. And instead of starting to work, they write comments, translated into human language meaning "It's just that she has a rich lover." They have no idea how my success and my money are actually given to me.
Do you want me to tell you how Anya Sedokova's evening goes? Not the advertising picture that you see on the Internet, but the real, live Anya? Here I come home after a whole day in the office, after filming, meetings, negotiations. I go into the apartment, take Huck in my arms, and Alya and Monika say: “Mom, play with us. You've been at work all day, we miss you." And at this moment, most of all I want to just sit on the sofa, stare at the wall and sit for at least five minutes in complete silence without moving. And I understand that I am the worst mother in the world, because I can’t give my children what they need, I don’t have the strength for it.
I try to be a good mom. If I'm going to a concert somewhere, I take everyone with me. Although in this case, negotiations, filming and interviews add another load in the form of “collecting all passports and birth certificates, ordering tickets for everyone, packing things up.” And here we go, for example, to Turkey. We rest, sunbathe, I work out the concert, everything goes surprisingly smoothly, no one got sick, no one got lost. We come home - everything is fine. It can’t be, I think, that nothing happened to anyone during the entire vacation. Somewhere a trick. And then Monica carefully asks: “Mom, where is my suitcase?” It turned out that her suitcase was in Turkey. In hotel. With all her summer things. And I understand that the dress, socks and sandals, in which Monica stands in the hallway, are now her entire wardrobe.
I don’t complain, I don’t regret anything, I chose my own path, and I like it. And I won't give up for anything. I remember Sergey Kozhevnikov, when he was a producer of Russian Radio, said: “I like you because you never give up.” And he's right. Do you know why I never give up? Because I have three children and I have no right to give up!
Anna Sedokova
A family: daughters - Alina (12 years old), Monika (6 years old), son - Hector (4 months old)
Education: graduated from Kyiv National University culture and arts
Career: in 2002 she became a member of the VIA Gra group, which she left two years later. She began to perform solo, she has more than 10 video clips to her credit. She hosted the programs “New Songs about the Main”, “King of the Ring” and “Five Stars” on Channel One, took part in the projects “Ice Age-2” and “Two Stars”. played leading role in the comedy "Pregnant"
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Natalya Vodyanova
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Lukas, 11-year-old daughter Neva, 9-year-old Victor, 3-year-old
Maxim and one-year-old Roman. After each birth, she
easily returns to its usual parameters: 86-61-86.
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Ekaterina Klimova
The 39-year-old actress has four children: 15-year-old Elizabeth,
10-year-old Matvey, 9-year-old Korney and 2-year-old Bella. At
This Catherine managed to maintain an ideal figure.
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Heidi Klum
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Singer and TV presenter Anna Sedokova is the mother of two daughters and one son. The other day, the girl posted a photo and a post on her microblog, which made fans alarmed.
The picture shows Anna with her eldest daughter Alina and her youngest son Hector. Followers asked a reasonable question: “Where is another daughter - Monica?” Sedokova wrote to the picture: “We miss you, but we believe that this is temporary.”
"I'm sending you rays of my love."
The girl recently took part in Lera Kudryavtseva's program "Secret for a Million".
Then the singer casually noticed that the family of her ex-husband, Monica's father, was trying to take the child for herself.
Anna with Maxim Cherniavsky
A lot of comments immediately accumulated under the post. Someone suggested that the girl is now with her father, businessman Maxim Chernyavsky.
Monica's father could take the child
Monica was born in 2011, but two years later her parents officially filed for divorce.
Monica with mom
A 6-year-old girl must go to school. She is a US civilian like her father.
Hector, Alina and Monika
Maybe, middle daughter the singer is really close to her father, but no one forcibly took her away.
Anna Sedokova with her daughters
It is possible that Anna herself gave the child ex-husband due to permanent employment.
Anna Sedokova: singer and mother of three children
Sedokova did not comment on the assumptions of the fans. But obviously Monica isn't with her right now.
Eldest daughter Alina and younger son Hector
The following pictures in her microblog show only the elder Alina and the younger Hector.
The mother of many children, Anna Sedokova, has repeatedly reported in her microblog that she has to cope with her children alone. The singer did not complain about the life of a single mother, but hinted that no one was helping her.
In fact, Sedokova was unfair to the father of her middle child. Maxim Chernyavsky, Monica's father, has been living in America for many years and takes an active part in his daughter's life. Moreover, when Anna Sedokova was busy on tour, Max took him to him and eldest daughter ex-wife from her marriage to Ukrainian footballer Valentin Belkevich.
Shortly after the birth of her third child, Anna Sedokova returned to work again. The singer recorded new songs and began to actively tour and act in television shows. In addition, Anna was invited to new project She travels to different countries with her children.
Of course, with such a work schedule, it is difficult for the singer to pay enough attention to all the children. So, apparently, Maxim Chernyavsky considered. The man is worried about his daughter, because Monica needs to study. The other day the girl flew to Los Angeles, where she resumed school.
Fans of Maxim Chernyavsky believe that Anna Sedokova is promoting herself at the expense of her daughter
Yesterday, Anna Sedokova's Instagram posted a note that she misses Monica. The artist promised someday everything to tell the fans:
We really miss our Monica, but we believe that all this is temporary and everything will definitely be fine! Love always wins! Someday I will definitely tell you everything, but for now, we miss you very much ...
Anna's followers realized that she had problems with Maxim Chernyavsky, who took his daughter to America. Anna's fans, of course, sympathized with their favorite, but Instagram subscribers of Maxim Chernyavsky condemned Sedokova. Many are sure that she deliberately left a meaningful post to arouse a wave of interest in herself:
lisa_i_co Yes, no one was selected. Sedokova herself left Monica to her father 2 years ago. The girl is a US citizen, so she will follow her mother around the world.
tea_maximova Sedokova does this on purpose) she’s still rubbish, it will take a long time to speculate on this
dashikasamm and you would not take away? Anya does what she does, only flies in and sits then crying .. that they left her .. what will she teach Monica? promiscuous relationships?
lunalunaluna4 it's just that the girl is studying at school now and dad didn't want her to miss school. She will not be able to travel around cities and towns with Anya, she must get an education. After all, Monica lives with her dad, and not with strangers. They raised a fuss because of Anya's hints.
karina_diamonds and I think that as a father who supported not only his daughter but also Maman, who was unemployed, he did the right thing!!! The child should go to school, and not hang around with mom on show programs and shine every day on Instagram for money for mom!
HELLO.RU continues to acquaint readers with the style of the most fashionable celebrity children. Following the daughter of singer Vera Brezhneva - Sarah, the heroine of our column is Monica - the daughter of another ex-soloist of the VIA Gra group - Anna Sedokova - and businessman Maxim Chernyavsky.
July 24, 2011 Anna Sedokova and Maxim Chernyavsky became the parents of a daughter, who was named Monica. For Anna, the child became the second - from her marriage to football player Valentin Belkevich, she has a daughter, Alina, and for Maxim, the first. The baby was born at the elite medical center Cedars Sinai in Los Angeles, where a few weeks earlier, Victoria Beckham gave birth to her daughter Harper, and Kate Hudson - son Bing.
Everything went pretty easily and quickly. I gave birth on my own, without a caesarean section. During childbirth, Max was next to me. I never asked him about it, because I think that this is a personal choice for everyone. But he himself insisted on being with us at this moment, and for me it turned out to be the most striking manifestation of his love,
Anna told. She and Maxim chose the name for their daughter long before her birth, when, in the third month of pregnancy, Sedokova found out the sex of the unborn child. They "borrowed" the first letter "M" from the name of Maxim, and the last "A" - from the names of Anna and Alina. So, through complex manipulations, the name "Monica" was obtained.
Three-year-old Anna Sedokova (upper photo on the left) and her daughter Monika
Alina and Monika
Especially the appearance of Monica was glad of her elder sister. When the baby was brought from the hospital, Alina met her like a real princess - she decorated the house, prepared gifts "for growth". Since then, according to them star mom the girls are inseparable:
They adore each other. Monica's main authority in life is her older sister, she does not leave her a single step. This trifle is worn around the house shouting "Alya! Alya!" To show her sister the "concert". The eldest, of course, is not easy.
"It's not easy" for Anna herself, because, according to her confession, Monica is a very active girl:
Monica is, of course, a copy of the character from the movie Problem Child. Every five minutes something drops, breaks, pours out, naughty, in a word. But she is a very kind girl.
Despite the fact that Anna and Maxim could not save their marriage and divorced in February 2013, they continued to raise Monica together. On his Instagram page, Chernyavsky publishes photos of his daughter with enviable frequency, never getting tired of declaring his love for her:
I woke up today with just the thought of how much I miss her. I haven’t seen her for two days, and I can’t find a place for myself anymore. And then the nanny sent pictures - she now wears a cap, like dad.
Monika Chernyavskaya
Maxim Chernyavsky with his daughter Monica
Alina and Monika 
Anna Sedokova with her daughter Monika
Speaking of the cap: Monica loves hats, and, moreover, she prefers sports caps, headbands or even crowns to ordinary hats. Let her copy some elements of clothing from her father, but, of course, her mother had a much greater influence on her style. Anna does not hide the fact that her daughter enjoys being like her: they made the same hairstyles, wear the same T-shirts and bandanas:
Moni loves my style! She asked, like her mother, to tie a bandana for her. And so it went!
Monica, like Anna, alternates images depending on her mood. Today she can dress like a true little lady, and tomorrow choose something sporty and hooligan. That is why in her wardrobe there are both cute sundresses, flowered skirts, ballerina tutus and blouses with lace, and loose trousers, sweatshirts, overalls and a huge number of sneakers and sneakers. But there are two things that, perhaps, always suit her mood: firstly, T-shirts with her favorite cartoon characters - minions are always welcome, and secondly, Moni will never refuse outfits in her favorite color - pink.
Maxim Chernyavsky with his daughter Monica
Alina and Monika 
Monika Chernyavskaya
Monika Chernyavskaya
Monika Chernyavskaya
I chose all the outfit myself. Everything that I chose, didn’t fit in color or didn’t like it, I immediately rejected it! She also said that she really needed a suitcase to put everything we bought,
Maxim told about one of the "pink" images of Monica. He, as a father, will have to put up with other fashion impulses of his daughter: for now she is only 4 years old, but in 10 years she will probably want to change her image, or even follow in the footsteps of her star mother. Monica has already noted her first performance on stage - whether there will be more!
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Anna Sedokova with daughters Alina and Monika
Monika Chernyavskaya
Monika Chernyavskaya
Alina and Monika 
Anna Sedokova with her daughter Monika
