What is wrong with Alsu's son. “Mom’s genes don’t smell here”: Alsou showed a photo with her daughters

I don't believe in a child.
Here on all psychological sites they write: the main thing is faith in the child, support from parents.
Excellent, gentlemen psychologists.
And if there is no faith in the child? Well, you don't believe in him.
Always stupid children, children with SR, unteachable - they are somewhere out there, far away, in other families.
And you're talking about faith like that.

What if you have? If you yourself have an unteachable degrading child?
Whereas? Chanting "We believe in ourselves!" like in the finale of the movie "Requiem for a Dream"?
Spit and not do at all?
So the public is pushing.
- Ah, he will go to a school for fools (and he belongs there anyway,
because he is a fool)!
- Oh, you yourself are ruining your child.
- But with Tanya-Kolya-Petya they are engaged, and they have progress, but you do not study, and Vasya loses his skills.

And how to deal with it? How to force yourself? How to force it, Egyptian power?
So he sat down to study - and the province went for a walk:
You give him a finger in a book, and he plays cars with his other hand.
You remove the cars - it just spins.
You try to read a book - at every word he interrupts and carries some kind of heresy.
And yelling, yelling, yelling, spitting (sorry) on your clothes, poking a finger in your eyes, throwing things...

Sometimes I want to talk about my problem.
But who will you talk to?
With husband? He himself is horrified.
With parents? They won't listen, they'll say, "It's my own fault," or, "I don't have the nerve for all these things."
It's good when you can just say "I don't have enough nerves" and go home (hang up the phone, log out of Skype...).
And you can't afford that luxury. You have to spend the rest of your life with this child.
Every day, day after day. Is always. You're on life, darling.

And you're always to blame, no matter what you do.
Do you give pills? - poorly. Don't you? - worse.
Doing - breaking down - yelling? It’s bad, you can’t yell, it loosens the already pampered system of the child,
that jumps on your head while you lie half dead.
Are you not busy? It’s bad - the child doesn’t shine even now, but it will grow even more trenchant.
I went for a walk with him on the street, does he beat passers-by there? Too bad, take him home.
Are you at home with him? Too bad, the kid needs to move.
In short, from all sides bad, whatever one may say. For others, it is bad, but for oneself it is the embodiment of evil on earth.

You can go to the forum - there you will grab so much abuse that it lasts an average of six months.

Phew, I spoke up.
Let's chat, shall we?
Tell us about your difficulties with children and how you overcame them. Or not overcome.
If you really want to run with slippers - well, run, now what to do with you ...

Marquise no angels

Remember how, as children, we clung to the TV screen when our favorite film, The Three Musketeers, was on there. As we admired the fearless trio of musketeers, we sang along with the young d. Artagnan "It's time, time, we will rejoice in our lifetime." And how unpleasant we were the cunning Cardinal Richelieu, Rochefort and the most negative hero of the novel - Milady. She - the Countess de La Fère, Lady Winter - constantly pursued our heroes, created intrigues and brought death with her. But at the same time, some force attracted to this woman branded with a lily flower, her strength and cunning also deserved admiration ....

Terekhova - Milady

Maria

Hello girls. lost today wedding ring, while I was engaged in meat, I decided to take it off and put it on a hundred, and forgot to put it on. After that, the table was wiped many times and still there is no ring of mine! Already searched everything, every corner. Now what to do with the husband's ring? Should I keep it the same or put it off for now? We are not painted, just started wearing since 2017. We were going to sign next summer.

Marianna Tarasova

Girls, please support.

I live with my husband and 4 year old child. Relatively recently I went to work, I'm just getting used to it and life is getting better. But it got worse with her husband. He stopped funding me completely. He doesn't even give me food or travel. He looks for something in my things, looks at the contents of my bag, pockets, reads the messenger on the phone, reads the browser history. She put on the wrong thing, put the plate in the wrong place, etc. She reproaches me with new clothes. It became very hard. No hello, no answer. He goes to his parents, communicates with relatives, and I'm all at work or alone with the child on weekends.

The topic of divorce has been around for a long time. But I was not ready to move out to rented accommodation with a child. Once he changed the locks in my apartment in my absence. The child was 6 months old. I stood for 5 hours with a child in my arms at the entrance (((then my parents did not support me, there was simply nowhere to go, there was no one to leave the child ... Then, apparently, he took pity, let him in. Live. There were a lot of things. But I didn’t dare to leave. It sucked like a swamp It seems that I will not arrange my life, I will not earn money for housing.

Support with a positive experience. I am depressed and desperate.

Alsou's mother of many children has finally come out. The singer appeared in public a year after the birth of the baby. About how she managed to recover in such a short time, the artist told in exclusive interview"Light it up!"

A few months ago, fans put Alsou on the wanted list. After the birth of her son, the artist stopped writing anything about herself on social networks. Fans suspected something was wrong.

– I just didn’t have the desire to go on social networks,” says the singer. - A son appeared in my life, and I paid all my attention only to him.

According to Alsou, during her absence from show business, she did not yearn: other priorities have long been outlined in her life.

– Without increased attention from fans, I never got bored, - the artist continues. - For almost twenty years - those that I have been on stage - on the contrary, I am always embarrassed by excessive attention to myself. Of course, I missed the audience, the performances, the new songs. But, I repeat, I was not at all worried about my absence. These one and a half years I experienced completely different sensations that cannot be compared with anything. Becoming a mother once again is the greatest happiness that no one new hit will not give. No offense to the fans, but children and family are the most sacred and most important thing for me. I enjoyed family life and his new role. Between the girls and the birth of a son, I got a big difference. Therefore, I have already forgotten what it is like to be a mother of a baby. I remembered everything again - it can not be compared with anything.

The actress has already fully recovered after the birth of the child. Looking at her, you would not say that she has three children.

– I didn’t follow any diets, - said “Light it up!” star. “My normal form returns by itself. This was the case with me even after my first children were born. Within a few months, I returned to my usual shape without much effort.

Alsu shows his Rafael only to the closest. Television people have repeatedly offered her to participate in a TV show, but the singer is in no hurry to do this.

– You need to wait a year or two until the son himself wants to give an interview, says the artist. - More recently, an interview was published where they wrote that my son is a manipulator. My words were paraphrased: it turned out a little even rudely. Manipulator is a big word. It's just that small children are very cunning. They know from birth how to do it in order to get what they want. And our son is no exception.

The elder children of the singer - 11-year-old Safina and 9-year-old Mikella - received the appearance of their brother with great joy. According to Alsou, she did not notice any jealousy on their part.

– I try to spend all my time with children, - the artist continues. - It is still difficult to say whether the girls will follow in my footsteps. They go to school, go in for music, singing. We watch the whole family children's "Voice". And sometimes we even dream of taking part there. But I believe that until the children are one hundred percent ready for the stage, it makes no sense to let them on a television project. I would not want them to come out at the expense of my name!

Correspondents "Light it up!" asked the star how their relationship with her husband had changed when they became parents of many children. She assured: only for the best.

– When a family grows, it's wonderful, says Alsou. - With the birth of a son, the family became even more friendly. When there are many children in a family, it unites spouses. And very strongly.

Modern celebrities very often sell the first pictures of newborn babies to the media. For a certain amount of money, they are ready to do family photo shoots for everyone to see.

But there are exceptions to this rule. Today in our article we will talk about singer Alsou. Her family belongs to the Muslim family and professes Islam. In 2011, Forbes estimated her father's fortune at half a billion dollars. The singer has two brothers, the elder Marat and the younger Renard.

The girl began to study music at an early age. In 1993, Alsou made her debut on the stage of the Swiss camp with song "I will always love you".

In the winter of 1999, the debut video "Winter Dream" was released. The lyrical ballad instantly became a hit and became the singer's calling card. The successful debut was followed by the clips "Spring" and "Sometimes".

Alsou is the first in Russian show business entered into a long-term contract with an American record holding "Universal" for the release of seven English-language albums in 35 countries.

In 2000, the girl was entrusted to represent Russia at the Eurovision Song Contest in Stockholm. The 16-year-old singer came in second with "Solo". By 2002, the singer was popular both in Russia and abroad.

In April 2005, Alsou's friend introduced her to a businessman. Yan Abramov. The first meeting made a good impression on the young people, and he began to actively court the girl. And two months later, Jan made an offer to the singer.

The couple got married in March 2006. The ceremony took place not in the usual registry office, but in the State Central Concert Hall "Russia". The lovers were preparing for the wedding for six months. However, Alsu herself solved only creative issues, while Yan took on all the other chores.

Invited to the celebration over 600 people. The scale of the wedding was amazing: the concert hall "Russia" was unrecognizable, because the foyer was draped with purple fabric, and portraits of Alsou and Yan from different life periods hung on the walls. The newlyweds came to congratulate even the mayors of Moscow Yuri Luzhkov.

A little later it became known that the singer was expecting a baby. The family decided to give birth to their first child in Los Angeles. September 7, 2007 was born Safin's daughter. A year and a half later, on April 28, 2008, Alsou gave birth to her second child in Tel Aviv. daughter Michelle.

Now the couple is raising three children, because in August 2016 they had son Raphael. The boy is already a year and a half old, but the singer has never shown the baby on social networks. Alsou said that she intends to hide Rafael's face in the future.

“I haven’t published his photo anywhere yet and I’m not going to do it in the near future. Social networks I, first of all, started for my creativity. And that's why I support them.

My children are neither part of my work nor part of PR, so this topic is closed to me. This was our absolutely thoughtful decision with Jan, our very clear and unchanging position. ”- said the singer in an interview.

The singer also said that the baby has a wayward character, he knows how to manipulate his mother to get what he wants. “He knows how to manage adults.

And since so far there is no talk of any strict upbringing, much is permissible for him. In general, I am a very demanding, strict mother., — admitted the artist.

Seven-month-old Masha was diagnosed with a terrible diagnosis - "osteopetrosis". The girl's bones are brittle and put pressure on her vital organs. For example, they damaged the optic nerves - now the baby does not see. Hearing was also affected, it is likely that the girl will go deaf. To save Masha from suffering, a transplant is urgently needed bone marrow. But this operation costs 4.5 million rubles.

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Singer Alsou learned about this dramatic story of the Saidov family from the Web. And she wanted to help the unfortunate parents who lost their son three years ago - he had the same terrible diagnosis. "Alsu's assistants, at her request, contacted the organization, clarified the accuracy of the information, and then the singer transferred several hundred thousand rubles to the girl's account, promised to follow her fate," the Artemka Foundation, which deals with the child's problem, said.

“Mashenka is already expected in an Israeli clinic. We have already been examined there, met with the doctors. Only one operation is required, I hope it will be successful,” said the girl’s mother, Marina Saidova.

The woman still does not believe that the celebrity responded to their misfortune. "It's nice to realize that such a star has extended a helping hand to us," StarHit magazine quotes Masha's parent.

Alsou is the mother of ten-year-old Safina, nine-year-old Mikella and one-year-old Rafael. She knows that children should not cry and suffer. Therefore, I decided to help an outside family.

34 year old Alsou is mother of many children. In August last year, she gave birth to a long-awaited boy, who was named Raphael. The singer and her 39-year-old husband, businessman Yan Abramov, also have two daughters - 10-year-old Safina, nine-year-old Mikella. Photos of children on the artist's Instagram page appear extremely rarely, and she completely hides her son from outsiders. Not a single photo of the boy, even with his face covered, has yet appeared on the Web. Alsou voiced her position on this issue in a recent interview with OK! magazine, in which she said that she would continue to hide the heir.

According to the singer, she started pages on social networks solely for the sake of her creativity and pictures and videos not related to her work will not appear in her accounts. “I haven’t published his photo anywhere yet and I’m not going to do it in the near future. First of all, I started social networks for my creativity. And that's why I support them. My children are neither part of my work nor part of PR, so this topic is closed to me. This was our absolutely thoughtful decision with Jan, our very clear and unchanging position, ”— said the artist.

In addition, the young mother admitted that her son is growing up with character and already knows how to manipulate his parents. She noted that at such a young age, there can be no question of strictness and exactingness for the baby, but in the future, according to her, he will have to face refusals from his relatives.“He knows how to manage adults. And since there is no talk of any strict upbringing yet, he is allowed a lot. In general, I am a very demanding, strict mother,” Alsou said.